Confronting people is something that I rather not do. I just have a hard time to do it. It's one of my weaknesses, I admit. I don't think that confrontation is all bad. I think it's necessary to do it in order to to set matters straight. It's a skill that I've been trying to master though I'm not saying that confronting every single matter is okay as some issues are better left alone .
I have encountered people who say untruthful things about me. It hurts. But I'm the kind of person who tend to say nothing back and walk away. Unfortunately, this action doesn't help. The problem is not solved and I'm ended up boiled inside.
It's not that I don't want to confront the person. It's just somehow I'm in a shock stage and can't think what to say on the spot. Perhaps I think too much on what to say back, trying to find the appropriate words. At the same time, I don't think I should back off if I'm not wrong. And perhaps because I'm afraid to create more tensions?
I should give myself a credit. I dare myself to overcome this weakness. I have confronted some people in the past. Yes, it was very hard to do it but it's doable. I probably did them a bit too late (the next day or a few days after instead of that moment), but it's still better than nothing, don't you think?
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I have encountered people who say untruthful things about me. It hurts. But I'm the kind of person who tend to say nothing back and walk away. Unfortunately, this action doesn't help. The problem is not solved and I'm ended up boiled inside.
It's not that I don't want to confront the person. It's just somehow I'm in a shock stage and can't think what to say on the spot. Perhaps I think too much on what to say back, trying to find the appropriate words. At the same time, I don't think I should back off if I'm not wrong. And perhaps because I'm afraid to create more tensions?
I should give myself a credit. I dare myself to overcome this weakness. I have confronted some people in the past. Yes, it was very hard to do it but it's doable. I probably did them a bit too late (the next day or a few days after instead of that moment), but it's still better than nothing, don't you think?
You Wanna Piece of Me print above is available at Fatcatblue's store.
It's a weakness only if you feel bad about it, and if you show it that way.
ReplyDeleteCall it indifference or disinterest and it will become a strength.